The Influential Nonprofit

The Most Important Story You Tell

Episode Summary

Key Takeaways: In the realm of nonprofit leadership, the stories we tell ourselves are not mere whispers in the corners of our minds; they are the powerful undercurrents that shape our reality, influence, and leadership. Our personal self-talk mirrors the narrative we share with the world. This alignment, or lack thereof, can have significant repercussions on our efficacy as leaders and influencers. Transitions in life are as inevitable as the change of seasons. Adapting to change is key. This adaptation is made smoother with the help of emotional tools, which act as navigational aids during life's transitions. Every emotion wields a purpose; even the ones tinged with negativity like anxiety and doubt have a role to play in our decision-making and behavioral regulation. Achieving a balance and being aware of our emotional narratives are essential as we 'drive the bus' of our emotional selves through the daily journey of life. “It's not the story that we're telling other people that really has the power. It's the story that we tell ourselves” “Life is full of transitions, and you can adapt. Accept that life is full of transitions, that there are beginnings and endings. And that's the natural order of everything.” “The more kind and graceful and loving you are to yourself, the more time graceful loving, accepting you will be to other people.” - Maryanne Dersch Ask for and receive all you want, need and deserve without feeling rejected, ineffective, or pushy. Learn to manage your mindset, lead yourself and others more effectively and have the meaningful conversations that drive your most important work. Get your free starter kit today at www.theinfluentialnonprofit.com Connect with Maryanne Dersch: https://www.courageouscommunication.com/connect

Episode Notes

Key Takeaways:

• In the realm of nonprofit leadership, the stories we tell ourselves are not mere whispers in the corners of our minds; they are the powerful undercurrents that shape our reality, influence, and leadership.
• Our personal self-talk mirrors the narrative we share with the world. This alignment, or lack thereof, can have significant repercussions on our efficacy as leaders and influencers.
• Transitions in life are as inevitable as the change of seasons. Adapting to change is key. This adaptation is made smoother with the help of emotional tools, which act as navigational aids during life's transitions.
• Every emotion wields a purpose; even the ones tinged with negativity like anxiety and doubt have a role to play in our decision-making and behavioral regulation. Achieving a balance and being aware of our emotional narratives are essential as we 'drive the bus' of our emotional selves through the daily journey of life.

“It's not the story that we're telling other people that really has the power. It's the story that we tell ourselves”

“Life is full of transitions, and you can adapt. Accept that life is full of transitions, that there are beginnings and endings. And that's the natural order of everything.”

“The more kind and graceful and loving you are to yourself, the more time graceful loving, accepting you will be to other people.” 

- Maryanne Dersch