The Influential Nonprofit

Activating Your Support Networks

Episode Summary

Key Takeaways: Creating a support network can help you stay connected, stay confident, stay grounded, and most importantly, stay sovereign. Prioritize building deeper connections with people, and be intentional in getting to know them. Set dates, strive to meet consistently, and keep it fresh with different activities. The lessons that you need rarely ever come from within. Most of the time, it’s by seeking out other people and giving them a listening ear that you’ll find the gem that you need. Having a strong support network is not only about what you can get from it, it’s also an opportunity for you to give value to other people. Instead of worrying how your needs can be met, focus on being a value to others, knowing that your needs will be met. “It's not about the outcome, it's about staying sovereign. You create, you decide, you set the pattern. No one dictates to you how you feel or [what you are] worth, you decide that for yourself. That's sovereignty and what helps us stay in that is a support network.” “Allowing others to care for you and support you is an act of generosity. They get to have the gift of supporting you. It's not a burden, just like fundraising is not a burden.” “Instead of thinking, ‘What do I need from people?’ , [think] ‘How can I be a value to my friends?’ Because I know when I'm a value to them, they’ll be a value to me, I don't have to worry about it. I know my needs will be met.” - Maryanne Dersch Ask for and receive all you want need and deserve without feeling rejected, ineffective, or pushy. Learn to manage your mindset, lead yourself and others more effectively and have the meaningful conversations that drive your most important work. Get your free starter kit today at www.theinfluentialnonprofit.com Book your quickie intro call with Maryanne here! Connect with Maryanne Dersch: https://www.courageouscommunication.com/connect

Episode Notes

Key Takeaways:

 

“It's not about the outcome, it's about staying sovereign. You create, you decide, you set the pattern. No one dictates to you how you feel or [what you are] worth, you decide that for yourself. That's sovereignty and what helps us stay in that is a support network.”

“Allowing others to care for you and support you is an act of generosity. They get to have the gift of supporting you. It's not a burden, just like fundraising is not a burden.”

“Instead of thinking, ‘What do I need from people?’ , [think] ‘How can I be a value to my friends?’ Because I know when I'm a value to them, they’ll be a value to me, I don't have to worry about it. I know my needs will be met.” 

- Maryanne Dersch